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Frank Ocean Refuses to Answer Question About Whether or Not He’s Bi

Frank Ocean refuses to answer the question about whether or not he's bisexual in new interview with GQ Magazine

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Frank Ocean is quickly becoming a household name. His musical talents have been utilized by Beyoncè, Jay-Z, and Kanye. Outside of the studio, he appears to be very frank (pun intended) about his personal life.

Earlier this year, he revealed that he had fallen in love with a man — making him the first openly gay R&B artist in the industry. Ever since “coming out” in the media, Frank Ocean has candidly discussed his decision to disclose his s*xuality and many other personal factors in his life. That “open book” appeal the singer/songwriter has was challenged in a recent interview with GQ Magazine when he was asked whether or not he’s interested in women.

Instead of answering the question, he told the interviewer to proceed to the next question and provided an overly-complexed response. Read excerpts from the interview below:

On Why He Wrote the Open Letter on Tumblr:
I had Skyped into a listening session that Def Jam was hosting for Channel Orange, and one of the journalists, very harmlessly—quotation gestures in the air, “very harmlessly”—wrote a piece and mentioned that. I was just like, “F-ck it. Talk about it, don’t talk about it—talk about this.” No more mystery. Through with that.

The night I posted it, I cried like a f-cking baby. It was like all the frequency just clicked to a change in my head. All the receptors were now receiving a different signal, and I was happy. I hadn’t been happy in so long. I’ve been sad again since, but it’s a totally different take on sad. There’s just some magic in truth and honesty and openness.

On How His Perspective Changed Afterward:
Whatever I said in that letter, before I posted it, seemed so huge. But when you come out the other side, now your brain—instead of receiving fear—sees “Oh, sh-t happened and nothing happened.” Brain says, “Self, I’m fine.” I look around, and I’m touching my f-cking limbs, and I’m good. Before anybody called me and said congratulations or anything nice, it had already changed. It wasn’t from outside. It was completely in here, in my head.

On His Fears About Coming Out:
I had those fears. In black music, we’ve got so many leaps and bounds to make with acceptance and tolerance in regard to that issue. It reflects something just ingrained, you know. When I was growing up, there was nobody in my family—not even my mother—who I could look to and be like, “I know you’ve never said anything homophobic.” So, you know, you worry about people in the business who you’ve heard talk that way. Some of my heroes coming up talk recklessly like that. It’s tempting to give those views and words—that ignorance—more attention than they deserve. Very tempting.

On people saying he came out for attention:
Some people said, “He’s saying he fell in love with a guy for hype.” As if that’s the best hype you can get in hip-hop or black music. So I knew that if I was going to say what I said, it had to be in concert with one of the most brilliant pieces of art that has come out in my generation. And that’s what I did. Why can I say that? Why I don’t have to affect all this humility and sh-t is because I worked my ass off. I worked my face off. And the part that you love the most is the easiest part for me. So I’ll do it again.

On why he felt as though he couldn’t keep it a secret or be on the DL:
The pitch is, “You’ll encounter less resistance in life if you say, ‘No, I’m going to just keep dating girls.’ ” But then you’re minimizing the resistance that you’re feeling from yourself on the inside. There’s so much upkeep on that sh-t. So much upkeep on a lie. But at least everybody else is cool with how you carry on with your life. That’s what they say. But know what fear does to your strength. You don’t even feel smart or capable. You just feel broken—and not just your heart. Just a broken person.

On If He’s Bisexual:
You can move to the next question. I’ll respectfully say that life is dynamic and comes along with dynamic experiences, and the same sentiment that I have towards genres of music, I have towards a lot of labels and boxes and sh-t. I’m in this business to be creative—I’ll even diminish it and say to be a content provider. One of the pieces of content that I’m for f-ck sure not giving is porn videos. I’m not a centerfold. I’m not trying to sell you s*x. People should pay attention to that in the letter: I didn’t need to label it for it to have impact. Because people realize everything that I say is so relatable, because when you’re talking about romantic love, both sides in all scenarios feel the same sh-t. As a writer, as a creator, I’m giving you my experiences. But just take what I give you. You ain’t got to pry beyond that. I’m giving you what I feel like you can feel. The other sh-t, you can’t feel. You can’t feel a box. You can’t feel a label. Don’t get caught up in that sh-t. There’s so much something in life. Don’t get caught up in the nothing. That sh-t is nothing, you know? It’s nothing. Vanish the fear.


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11 comments

  1. So what if he is. It has no effect on the music he puts out and you love. Mind your own business. " Do YOU have the guts to come out???" lol

  2. I’m tired of all this Faggitry & Homo Bizness We are Finished Without our Black Women Period! Turn it around Young Brother call on Brother Farrakhan not these other Fag Preachers lol !

  3. Who cares

  4. Collegiate African American

    It should not matter. Brother told you in the beginning now leave it at that and enjoy his great music and lyrics.

  5. It's no one business, and no one should care…ALL TRUE. But HE put it out there for the WORLD to know….if someone opens up their own Pandora's Box, they have no grounds to get mad if anyone has a question or two…great musician, but I really didn't care to know about his sexual preferences. TMI!

  6. Unless I'm dating him, why should I care?

  7. That's no ones business but his & the person(s) he's sleeping with.

  8. Still love his music! Who the hell asked him that question any damn way smh!

  9. Who cares? He makes great music so let's leave his bedroom business in HIS bedroom.

    • JamesWorldwide GreatHabu Britton

      I agree, if people would mind their own business and worry about where their lives are heading, then they wouldnt have time to worry about if a brotha comes out and says he is gay or bi or a purple elephant with green polka dots. Im starting to feel like this site is turning into some jerry springer run off or those trashy tabloids you see in the rack just prior to paying for your groceries.

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