Over the weekend DailyMail UK reported that Chris Brown was spotted with a mystery blond at a party. This morning the DailyMail UK reported that Rihanna was spotted at a Los Angeles Clippers games with a male friend. The report made it seem like Brown was gallivanting around with another woman and that in an effort to make it even, Rihanna had a date of her own the next day.
Let’s put the brakes on this now. Pictures can say more than a thousand different things to a thousand different people. Let’s look at Chris Brown and the mystery blond. First, we have to point out that Chris is a star and he, to some degree, has to play to that. The blond looks like she is eying the, “Don’t Wake Me Up” singer like she wants to jump his bones. Folks, this does not mean that the two are about to get busy or that she is even with Brown. Could it be possible that Brown is sitting in a VIP room to which this groupie was invited into?
Now let’s look at Rihanna. In all of the pictures, it does not even appear that she is even remotely attracted to the gentleman. I looks more like this could be a cousin, childhood friend, business partner, or friend who has known her for a while. Who is to say that the gentleman that is with her is not a friend of Chris Brown’s. This is a prime example of how things get stirred up in the media. Chris Brown just recently told 105.1’s , “I’m just a regular guy so I be thinking, man I hope nobody’s hitting that.” “But you can’t be the jealous boyfriend, I can’t be calling her constantly asking what she’s doing so I just gotta put that trust out there and hope nothing happens.”
Of course winning back the love of a woman who was hurt by you is difficult. Once a woman is scorned and she takes you back, one should be worried about what she is doing with others and if she is even back with you out of love or just to get back at you. But if Rihanna and Chris Brown have to run around worrying about what the other is getting into, then it may be that they should not even attempt to make it work.
Asa Lovechild is an accomplished actress and singer out of New York City and a supporter of One Billion Rising